IT’S NOT THAT NICE GUYS FINISH LAST, IT’S THAT THEY’VE LOST THEIR BALLS 🍒🗡 Nice guys aren’t getting repetitively friend-zoned *because* they’re nice, they’re getting friend-zoned because they can *only* be nice.
This is such a key difference to get.
What’s actually happened for a lot of nice guys is they’ve been conditioned OUT OF the more edgy, direct, and bold sides of them, and therefore CAN ONLY reside in their ‘nice guy.’ They lose that inner killer, their confidence, the ability to be assertive, and they usually become overly-considerate, super concerned as coming across as a dick, and don’t often take life on.
I was working with a client on exactly this recently and I want to tell all you nice guys…
You don’t have to lose your heart, your sensitivity, your softness but YOU DO have to get rid of your shit around being direct, bold, and assertive
If you’re unable to ACCESS those qualities in yourself (and I say ‘access’ because I believe we all have the ability to choose any trait, they just get covered up in ourselves) then you won’t be able to create polarity, sexual chemistry and magnetism with women.
Accessing this isn’t going to make you a cock but it’ll give you yours back.
The reason for guys being conditioned into the nice guy are many. Sometimes it comes from being bullied by the jocks at school (so therefore they don't want to be like them), sometimes it’s from mum talking smack about how arrogant and selfish dad is, sometimes it’s from a breakup. I’ll speak about these another day.
For now, nice guys… consider how friggen epic it would be to live from both your heart AND that ballsy, bold, and direct part of you.
I’m currently taking on men in my mentoring programs. If you want some help on this, slide up into my DM’s and we can have a private chat.
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